don’t make them feel special in the first place. You can’t just lead someone on, without thinking how the everything might end. The first think you do is, you send them sweet messages. Then you two get to know each other better, but when that ‘someone’ finds someone better, they make you vulnerable and sad. What’s going to happen after? You two fade away, like nothing ever happened. No matter how hard you try to get someone out of your head, they’ll always be there.